please help :: Traditional, Something Blue or Modern?


As a woman who adores great style, beautiful fabrics, gemstones and shoes, creating a wedding day look has been amazingly fun. Let me rephrase that. At first, it was painful. I had no luck finding the right dress or the right jewels. So, I decided to find amazingly talented people and take an active role in designing process. I loved collaborating with designers and jewelers to create my wedding day look.

Throughout the process, I’ve struggled the most with this question: How traditional should I be?

Initially, I wanted to order my wedding dress in vivid sky blue silk chiffon (it's my best color!). Then, I agonized – would I regret not wearing white on my wedding day? Ultimately, I settled for ivory silk. It happened again with shoes. Do I go boring and traditional? Or, do I choose shoes I love but may seem ridiculous in five years?

It’s happening again with jewels. Do I choose traditional earrings? Or select a beautiful, modern pair more aligned with my current aesthetic? One of my girlfriends suggested merging the traditional ‘something blue’ with a modern design.

Ah, it’s so tricky! And, it’s so hard because my style is always evolving… how do I avoid cringing at my photos later in life?

Any past-brides or bride-to-be have any suggestions for dealing with the traditional vs. modern quandary?

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Something Classic (from top to bottom): BIRKS Collection Diamond Solitaire Earrings in 18kt Yellow Gold, Andrea Fohrman Rock Crystal Max Earrings in White Gold, Alex Woo Vida Earrings in Sterling Silver and Insieme Collection by Damiani Diamond Drop Earrings in 18kt White and Rose Gold

Something Blue (from top to bottom):Annette Ferdinandsen Simple Bug Earring in Aquamarine, Nak Armstrong Sky Blue Topaz and Labradorite Mosaic Earrings, Gurhan 24k gold Opal and diamond drop earrings, and Melissa Joy Manning apatite, gem calcia, and aquamarine triple drop earrings in sterling silver

Something Different (from top to bottom):Larkspur & Hawk Lily 22-karat rose gold-dipped topaz drop earrings, Alexis Bittar Crystal Encrusted Gold Spear Earrings, Gurhan 24k gold four hoop cluster earrings with Ruby briolette drops